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Dealing with my ex wife dating

Just think of all the stories you hear where someone has dated a guy/girl and it hasn’t worked out because they were still hung up on their ex?

If you're wondering how to handle some of the issues that may arise with your ex-husband, the following input from our life coach can help: Question: How do you handle it if your fiancé is still close to an ex, even if they ended their relationship 20 years ago? He also thinks that it should be okay with me to let him go out to lunch with her every once in a while without me. He was also married before, and his ex-wife didn't allow this, so why should I? Gloria's Answer: Instead of asking yourself if you are wrong for feeling this way, I'd love for you take a few minutes and ask yourself why you are feeling this way.

What bothers me is that he talks to her more than he talks to any of his other friends. More than anything else, I'm hearing that you are afraid of all the "what if's" associated with your fiancé in this relationship. Is there an underlying feeling of distrust there that is building up inside of you?

Nothing is inappropriate when you are talking about a priority/a personal choice. If you are OK with his decision then keep this in mind and accept your place and the place of your children in his life as second.

Even if the relationship ended for the right reasons and they don’t want to be with you, moving on quickly doesn’t mean they’ve forgotten you.

I think it’s important to understand that all of the thoughts listed above, many times, aren’t true.

Just because someone has moved on quickly, it doesn’t mean that they didn’t love us or that they’re over us or that the relationship didn’t matter to them.

Is it coming from a past experience of yours or something that your fiancé has brought from his past? I would encourage you to talk with your fiancé to let him know the boundaries you are comfortable with.